EVERY EID IS SPENT AT 74 EACH YEAR ,A FEW TIMES WE HAVE CELEBRATED IN BANBURY OR HOSPITAL THE LAST FEW EIDS WERE NOT SPENT WITH SLOUGH LOT BUT THIS LAST EID WAS SPECIAL BECAUSE HASSAN AND MEDINA BOTH WERE IN THE BEST OF HEALTH AND OFF ALL THE STRONG MEDICATIONS AND WE WERE LOOKING FORWARDS TO IT BUT AFTER SO MANY YEARS WE CELEBRATED IN 41 USUALLY EVERYONE CAME TO 74 TO SEE THE KIDS AS THEY WERE TOO POORLY TO GO ACROSS SO IT IS A BITTERSWEET MEMORY NOW THAT IT WAS SPENT THERE.NAFEESA WOULDNT MOVE FROM HER SPOT ON THE SOFA FOR WEEKS [SUFFERING FROM TB AND WHIPLASH ETC] EVERYONE HAD TRIED THEIR BEST TO COAX HER TO NO AVAIL BUT THE MOMENT HASSAN RELAXED ON HER SPOT SHE TRIED HER GLANCES AND GLARES BUT HE LOOKES AT HER TO SAY WHATEVER IM IN CHARGE MOVE AND GET ON WITH IT NOW SHE EVEN HAD TO BABYSIT HIM FIRST TIME EVER SHE WAS COMPLAINING AND VERY UPSET EVEN THOUGH I PRETENDED I COULDNT NOTICE HER ATTITUDE BUT I THINK LOOKING BACK NOW ITS SOMETHING SHE WILL CHERISH AS IT WAS QUALITY TIME FOR HER AND HASSAN ..................................