SHIFAT AND MY KIDS SHARE A VERY CLOSE BOND PROBABLY BECAUSE OF THE CLOSENESS WE SHARE WHENEVER WE HAVE BEEN IN HOSPITAL OR HELEN HOUSE SHE DROPS EVERYTHING AND IS THERE. SHE DOESNT DO NAPPIES AT ALL IF SHE HAS HAD TO FORCEFULLY I WILL BE SPOKEN TO ABOUT MY RESPONSIBILITIES,I HAVE SO MANY BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES OF MOMENTS HASSAN HAS SPENT WITH SHIFAT BUT ONE THAT WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH IS WHEN HASSAN WAS GOING THROUGH THE INSOMNIA STAGE AND WE WERE STAYING IN SLOUGH ALL NIGHT IT WAS LIKE A TODDLERS QUARRELL GOING ON HIM SCREAMING ANG WHINING FOR ATTENTION,THEN HER SCREAMING AT HIM TO BE QUIET,HIM THEN CACKLING AT HER THINKING SHES PLAYING WITH ME HER GETTING MORE ANNOYED VICE VERSA UNTIL FINALLY DAD STEPPING IN AND REMINDING HER HES THE CHILD.... AND HASSAN FINALLY FALLING ASLEEP AS SHE HAD TO GO TO WORK AND HER IN TEARS TELLING HIM THAT HES A BULLY WHO MEANS TO DO IT ALL TO HER ETC.....